Professional is what I would like it to be. And this is exactly where I clash with my first T big time, he was very unprofessional and very often. Second T was okay in that department and it was definitely one of the features I appreciated in him the most. Professionalism in a T, for me, does not mean detached or extremely clinical, disciplined at all times etc. But professional in the sense of a therapist's job. Sometimes it felt like talking with a friend too much and I never liked those aspects much beyond some momentary pleasure. Friends are friends for me and I don't even desire foes in everyday life, let alone in paid appointments. I get perfectly enough competition via my own profession and it can be inspiring, but I get it for free and am actually paid a salary to deal with it