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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
Maybe it's less about you wanting to be perfect for him, and more about you wanting him to be perfect for you. If I were to play armchair therapist, I might guess this is the source of your anger, with a childhood history of a parent who was the definition of imperfect (sort of? one definition?).
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Yeah, sheesh. I hadn’t really even thought of that. It totally makes sense though. I do just want someone to “get me” (don’t we all?), and not just the nice, polite perfect version of me. I’m probably in for a huge let down if I’m expecting him to be perfect for me.