Yep selfy...
Some people lie,,,actually most of us do at one point or another. It's ususaly fear that makes us do it..generally fear of not being loved or accepted as we are. Someone planted a seed a long time ago that said we were supposed to be better than we are,,,or smarter, or thinner or nicer or cuter or whatever...and these seeds were planted by the very same people that were missing what they insinuated we lacked...
Lies, like a lot of things are generational and it takes someone like you with the guts to call in their bluff...
Showing our cards is tough stuff,,,especially if our house is made of them....
But please know there are some folks who no longer live in houses made of cards and are comfortable in their own skin and only wish the best for all folk,,,liars or not...
That is the big challenge on our trip,,I think,,to love in spite of them and ourselves...
But that is all from someone who just lied to my dogs and told them 10 minutes ago that I was taking them right outside...
They are calling me on it right now..
Got to go...
Be well,
Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them....
Sobriety date...Halloween 1989.
I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one...
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