I'm trying to forget about how much I miss my T, how angry I am at her, how much Little Cool feels abandoned, and anxiety.Why am I trying to forget? Because when I remember, I get very angry, and, having no one to vent the rage on, my anger turns inward and I become depressed. When I want to really vent my rage, I don't want to be told "you're strong, you'll get through this," or, "the worst part is over; you'll see The soon," or "you should do X, Y, or Z." I don't want "fixes"; I want to be HEARD. And, having heard me, I want my listeners to support me, not judge me.