Because I am new here I am going to assume that 'T' means trauma? If it does than healing is its own pain. Everyone thinks that to heal means all better no more boo-boos but they know nothing. Healing is its own journey with its own pain. Yes you have to slog through that pain to get to the other side but lets not invalidate it by telling someone the worst is over or "you'll get through it". Unless I am wrong and we are not talking about trauma.