The main thing was, I was trying to understand if it was ok to feel angry with her for #1, being late (she does it a lot) and #2, being angry with her response toward me. I believe it was ok. I was confused. But I believe that I was direct with her, and she was passive and angry with me as we'll for being direct. It also may have been a misunderstanding. She may have felt calling was enough. It wasn't. But I get it. Also my anger subsided pretty quickly and I do not feel I was inappropriate.