Ah, I hope you have someone who will come to your rescue every once in awhile.

This thread has been good for me. I was in a totally harsh mood. I see now I want a bit of distance but I don't really want to abandon this person.


Okay. This person has always been pretty much the same as long as I have known him...which has been years. He just accepts that he is a depressive. That's a bit different than me because I am always fighting against depression.

But I really don't need or want to abandon this person.


I can only take him in small doses. I was kind of surprised he called me the day before Christmas as he NEVER calls me. We had a nice conversation and I made him laugh. I just figured it was the least I could do. But I cannot have him as a central character in my life because of his stubborn depressive mindset.