To be honest this doesn't sound the person centred approach to me. The person centred approach isn't about trying to find answers so I can't understand what's with all the questions.

I particularly don't like the question "what advice would you give a friend in this situation?". What a useless question. She should also be okay with the idea that you don't know what balance looks like for you. Sometimes it's okay not to know.


I agree with Jessica that it's okay to tell her to just stop with the questions if they are not of use to you. She should be able to adapt to your needs.