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Old Dec 28, 2018, 04:17 AM
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
From everything I've read, no I don't think you should report your T. I don't think you have a case.

Haven't you already posted a thread about this?

Unless you have tangible evidence that shows she was neglectful, you can't really do anything. And just because she didn't react to you being suicidal, doesn't mean she was neglectful. Maybe she didn't react over an email, but did in session? How would you disprove that?

If you are set on reporting her, are you doing it for the right reasons? Are you prepared to go through the process? Are you prepared for an answer that might not be validating?

I reported my T. Everyone said she was unethical and abandoned me. But the board didn't agree. And now that I know why she did abandon me, I can see why the board ruled that way. You know why your T terminated with you. I think you're just looking for revenge or validation, but personally, I don't think you're going about it the right way. You keep wanting to point fingers at your T instead of processing what you did.
That’s actually not true, Scarlett. I have been processing what I did. I feel a lot of shame for driving by ex T’s house and have been talking a lot about it with my current T. At the same time, I don’t beleive it’s right to let ex T off the hook for her part in it. Please don’t make assumptions - I’m not pointing fingers. I am simply asking if I should hold ex T responsible for her part in it. That does not mean I am denying my responsibility.
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