I agree that it sounds really rude, Emily Fox Seaton. I'd suggest to talk to him about this if you haven't already, and see how it goes from there. Hopefully he will understand. If that doesn't work, then at the very least you should ask to be paid for your overtime. I believe that is your right. All your requests seem reasonable to me. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you