Thank you and good for you for holding this t accountable for her actions when she could not take the accountability on her own. You are not ruining her life. If anything, you are helping to make her life better. She will be forced to see how her actions (or lack there of) affect her clients so she won’t make the same mistakes. She will have to take appropriate steps to become a better t. Her life would be ruined if a client actually ended their life because of her. Be proud. You did a great thing for many people in this world.