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Originally Posted by DechanDawa
Ah, I hope you have someone who will come to your rescue every once in awhile.
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I don't. It's only a problem when I'm physically ill. A couple of years ago I had a kidney stone. I didn't want to leave my car at the hospital so I drove home. Lucky I didn't get a DUI - I was full of dilauded.
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Originally Posted by DechanDawa
This thread has been good for me. I was in a totally harsh mood. I see now I want a bit of distance but I don't really want to abandon this person.
Okay. This person has always been pretty much the same as long as I have known him...which has been years. He just accepts that he is a depressive. That's a bit different than me because I am always fighting against depression.
But I really don't need or want to abandon this person.
I can only take him in small doses. I was kind of surprised he called me the day before Christmas as he NEVER calls me. We had a nice conversation and I made him laugh. I just figured it was the least I could do. But I cannot have him as a central character in my life because of his stubborn depressive mindset.
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You should tell him that he is sometimes too much of a debbie downer. If he improves it would help him.