justbreathe, I too wonder what you would get out of reporting her?

My concern is really not around who did what or who is right or wrong, but more what is healthy for you. You've asked about reporting her a couple times before, and I find myself wondering if it is partly, unconsciously, understandably, about clinging to whatever shreds of connection to your ex-t that might be left for you when it may be better to let those go so that you can begin to genuinely heal. (Ugh. I am struggling to word this idea succinctly and still convey my intent, which is compassion and kindness for how painful this has been for you.)