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Originally Posted by WarmFuzzySocks
justbreathe, I too wonder what you would get out of reporting her?
My concern is really not around who did what or who is right or wrong, but more what is healthy for you. You've asked about reporting her a couple times before, and I find myself wondering if it is partly, unconsciously, understandably, about clinging to whatever shreds of connection to your ex-t that might be left for you when it may be better to let those go so that you can begin to genuinely heal. (Ugh. I am struggling to word this idea succinctly and still convey my intent, which is compassion and kindness for how painful this has been for you.)
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Thanks so much for your concern. I have thought about it lot and I beleive I have more “reason” to hope if I don’t report her. I know that I’d have to be completely and 100% okay with no chance of reconnecting with ex T if I report her. I know, without a doubt, she’d never want to see me again if I reported her. That is one of the main reasons why it would be so hard for me. I’d have to completely let go of her.