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Originally Posted by DarknessIsMyFriend
How though? I have tried in the past to improve my social skills and I still struggle. I find socializing draining and I'm not a people person. I find approaching people and starting a conversation with them extremely uncomfortable and intimidating. I also have a particular fear of approaching women. I am afraid of being rejected by them or seen as "creepy". I'm 27 years old, yet I've only had one actual relationship with a woman and that lasted a whole 4 months and I met her online so it wasn't anything serious enough for us to move together.
I've tried to improve but I just learn these types of things slowly. I have some trouble understanding social norms and I'm not good with small talk. I also have speech issues where sometimes I talk too fast or too slowly and I sometimes get nervous around people and have trouble thinking about what to say. I try and try but things just don't click.
Ya I'm good at tech. I built computers since age 7. I am a self taught computer hacker. I almost made it to being a professional gamer at one point even. Get me around people though and I outright struggle.
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Gonna read this later. Know I'm coming back to it. I just gotta do some stuff.