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Old Dec 29, 2018, 12:50 PM
Anonymous43949
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Originally Posted by LonelyMan View Post
yes i set up youtube channel a while ago and said he could helpas we are both interested in the topic. Immediately he wanted to change the name of it, change the sign off which was an advert for the channell and bring in a third party to advertise it. I said no it is my project and my rules.

So what i am really trying to figure is what is this. Is it OCD? Control freak. Is control freak aggressive? He is not
Okay, I see. It looks like you have been already clear with him. You said that it's your project and your rules. Prior to that point, you have could given him the benefit of doubt that maybe he missed your clues (since we all have blind spots). But now that you have been clear, he has no more excuse for not respecting boundaries. I don't know the reason behind what he does, but if you are being consistent with your "no thank you"'s and he persists over time, then you may have to consider letting him go as a friend.