Update: I'm really glad that I talked about this here. After, I decided to not pursue anything with him and that feels right. He definitely seems to like me. We talked to each other on Christmas eve and the way he was looking at me was creeping me out. Today he even rang my doorbell. I don't usually answer if I'm not expecting anyone. But one time my neighbor locked herself outside of her apt. and rang my doorbell, so I was playing it safe. He said he must have rung it by accident when putting the mail in the slots (It makes sense but I'm not sure he was being truthful). We started chatting and I ended up pulling out of him that he has a girlfriend and two young daughters. He was saying a lot of vague general things about his girlfriend like "its been over for a long time," I suggested relationship counseling and he said "it's way beyond that." Okayyy....... all those things he was saying about her seemed really ****** of him in my opinion and he has a 1 year old daughter with a woman he hates? Ok. It reminded me of the time I was hanging out with a coworker who wanted to hook up with me a few years ago. I found out he had a gf, and he kept saying how awful she was. It was all lies. He was the awful one. Thats another story but it just reminded me.
Anyway, I don't mind talking to him. But if he ever asks me out I will say No. I may pull back a little as well. Not really sure how. I just don't want to give him the impression that I'm into him.
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