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Originally Posted by ennie
Okay, I see. It looks like you have been already clear with him. You said that it's your project and your rules. Prior to that point, you have could given him the benefit of doubt that maybe he missed your clues (since we all have blind spots). But now that you have been clear, he has no more excuse for not respecting boundaries. I don't know the reason behind what he does, but if you are being consistent with your "no thank you"'s and he persists over time, then you may have to consider letting him go as a friend.
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There was another time at hallowen he wanted to go see some tarot card exhibition. He asked me i said no not into that. But still he text me when the tickets went on sale. "lets go get tickets" [you had to buy them from the hotel reception] I said no not into that. Think he was annoyed about that. he went on hols for a week with family
Also in relation to hols he has a holiday planned for summer 2019. His idea. i wanted to go . Now he has more people going, so i don't know
So I do not encourage him. Still he is a good friend. If i am sick the same thing. arriving with offers of help, do i need anything from shop
it is exhausting. It think it is OCD and the giving all the time s low self esteem. He does not seem aware of it. I do not want to hurt his feeling either. He has been good friend at tough times