((sept))
Not sure if this helps > But i have a friend who lost her husband 2 years ago. She is very needy "which i understand" as she has had a lot go wrong in her life. When ever things go wrong she calls me.
The other night she called and had a issue. I told her right from the start " She mattered."
which stopped the whole thing. She wanted to know someone cared.

My dad who passed in his 70s was always showing ppl his collections. over and over he did this. One young man who lived across the street listened to him for ages. My dad could go on and on. He was a needy person. That young person made a difference.

I have a lady who comes in my store. Everytime same story over and over. I listen,.......thats all i can do...

You have to do whats right for you...........
I agree with sabby when she said this"One can be honest while still being considerate"
good luck and may peace find you