There was another time at hallowen he wanted to go see some tarot card exhibition. He asked me i said no not into that. But still he text me when the tickets went on sale. "lets go get tickets" [you had to buy them from the hotel reception] I said no not into that. Think he was annoyed about that. he went on hols for a week with family

Also in relation to hols he has a holiday planned for summer 2019. His idea. i wanted to go . Now he has more people going, so i don't know

So I do not encourage him. Still he is a good friend. If i am sick the same thing. arriving with offers of help, do i need anything from shop

it is exhausting. It think it is OCD and the giving all the time s low self esteem. He does not seem aware of it. I do not want to hurt his feeling either. He has been good friend at tough times