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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Good Point about the grandmother in this situation. Plus the comments about her appearance from her grandmother. And in my case my parents had joint custody with visitation schedules. Meaning the legal custody was split. Physical custody just specifies where a child resides primarily. The legal custody means that both parents need to sign off and agree on healthcare, education, etc.
Does the OP have shared legal?
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No no legal custody. In addition to not consulting custodial parent, was grandma consulted? In addition to grandma being abusive to all honesty it’s her house!
I always shared legal custody, but my daughter lived primarily with me. If her dad told her during visits that she can live with him, I’d be distraught. He’d never do that. Whenever discussion arised re living arrangements, we consulted with each other first. You don’t put that responsibility on children. And you don’t ask them to come with you live in someone else’s house in volatile environment. It’s not considerate of everyone involved. Kids aren’t toys.
I bow out. This is disturbing for me.