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Old Dec 30, 2018, 04:51 PM
Lrad123 Lrad123 is offline
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Originally Posted by starfishing View Post
I do wonder about continuing with your current therapist though. It's not a bad idea to be looking at options but it seems plausible that over time you could still work through the negative transference at once a week, just more slowly. Either way, I hope it works out.
Yes, despite the negative transference, I do really like my T, and something about making an appointment with another T and discussing it openly with my T and watching him be kind, supportive and nondefensive about it has probably been good for our relationship which was unexpected. I do plan to talk to him again about whether he thinks progress can be made at once/week.

I also agree that it’s possibly not so much what the new T’s answers are to my questions as how she answers them.