Frankly I am surprised more people aren't immediately offended. I am not a knee jerk kinda girl but no way should the op sit and think about why they were said or if they were offensive. I do not think the op should weigh whether seeing her again is worth it or contemplate writing her a letter or using feeling words...its completely reprehensible and under no circumstances would it ever be ok. The thing is when people slip those "casual racist words" into normal conversation or worse yet a THERAPY conversation just think about what is unsaid? Think about what happens when she gets mad at this group? Think of how she would behave if she was ever upset by anyone in this group? Think about how unqualified she is really to do the important work of helping someone rebuild or heal or find their worth! Imagine how viral she would go if it had been caught on tape somewhere. If a company or eating place has racist employees people boycott these places so why would you ever go back ever again? I am sorry if I am so fired up but I truly cant believe she said things like that. I would report her and leave a bad review.