I’m sorry for all my posts these days. In my last post, it seemed like some people were irritated with me so I hope I’m not being annoying or coming across as overly-defensive in my threads. I really appreciate everyone’s opinions, even if they differ or I’m still stuck in my own.

I know I got some mixed opinions about whether I should report my ex T, with the majority of people saying I probably don’t have a case against her. I also don’t have much proof other than her voicemails (in which she does say “I love you... in that very appropriate way.”) and notes with the hearts on them. I still thought it might be beneficial to write a report, even though I don’t think I’d ever submit a complaint. My questions are for those who have been down this road before - what do I include? How long should it be? Is it okay if I don’t have proof of some of the things she did, like hang out in my room? Do I need specific examples of boundary violations to show she violated ethics, or is writing my subjective experience of how she encouraged my attachment enough?