It’s in different threads that the OP has started over time here. The op has been very judgemental here about her daughter. The way she dresses, her hair, her religious views, her weight. The op also resides with her mother who is also very judgemental of the child. It’s a toxic environment for a kid to live in-which is why some who answered in this thread seem upset.

Your not empowering a child when you are inviting them to live in a hostile, judgemental environment.

It’s actuallya little twisted.

I’m bowing out of the thread as well. I read it and was immediately distraught.