I had 3 cousins. One died and I didn't go to the funeral - it was 2000 miles away in FL. Then another cousin died and my remaining cousin didn't tell me. Now he didn't send me a Christmas card. I'm wondering if he is dead. But I checked the obits and didn't see him or his wife. Maybe he's really sick. Or his wife. I didn't send him a card. I don't really know him. He's just the last relative I have left.