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Originally Posted by DarknessIsMyFriend
Could it be because he doesn't feel good enough for you as a friend so he compensates for his inadequacy with gifts/favors?
I admit, I am like that so I can understand where he's coming from. I have a hard time making/keeping friends so I tend to go out of my way to keep what few people I have in my life. I ordered one friend pizza twice in the last month and I'm planning on building another one a cheap gaming PC for free soon. I even risked homelessness a couple of years ago just to get my former best friend away from an abusive relative. I am this way because I don't think I'm good enough to have people in my life so I am overly generous to reduce the chance they will abandon me later on.
Maybe this relates to your friend somehow?
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Thanks for your reply it would not show on my laptop. i think you are right but it is not just me he does not feel good enough for. He is always giving things to people. I gave him a ride from shop yesterday and mentioned something i had seen in a magazine so he bought me the magazine. I suppose maybe he wants to be
not taking without giving but i did not not give him a ride cos i wanted anything
you should take care of yourself. Homelessness is a big risk