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Old Jan 01, 2019, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted by justbreathe1994 View Post
Thank you. My reasons for reporting her would be to a) prevent her from hurting anyone else and b) empower my own self. I don’t beleive it was intentional, but I do beleive she was negligent. I think she was looking out for her own interests and hurt me in the process.
There are other ways to empower yourself

If she hurts anyone else, they can deal with it as they need to

Sometimes negligence happens.... you even said you don't think it was intentional, so I guess I'm still confused why you want to report her

And somewhere above you mentioned having hope of seeing her again, maybe hold on to that instead, try to make the best of your future and not do this, once you do, that option is gone.

I honestly don't think you have much of a case. I haven't seen anything that really jumps out as far as something they would investigate. It's your call, but I wouldn't.

Maybe journal about it or keep talking to your T about it.... those things could help you deal with the hurt
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