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Old Jan 01, 2019, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Lrad123 View Post
Back to the original question of this thread. I just thought of perhaps the most important question to ask a new T:

Have you had therapy yourself?

I’m guessing the answer will always be yes for someone who practices psychoanalytically, but I’d like to hear her answer.
Yes, it can be informative to see how they answer questions about themselves even if the answer is obvious. I like Ts who have websites with a small resume about their training and experience, so I usually know that by the time I contact them. If I were to interview a T now, I would still ask them to tell me about their training and work experience a bit, to see how they describe it on the spot and what they emphasize. I would also ask them what specific concepts and theories have impacted them the most and what they consider their professional specialities.

My last T asked me to email him some text about myself, my story, issues or whatever, before our first session. I enjoyed writing that up and seeing how he brought it up and discussed it in the session. It established an immediate good connection between us because he obviously related to a lot of how I presented myself in that letter, and I clearly felt it was genuine, not just a selling attempt.
Thanks for this!
Lrad123