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Originally Posted by Lrad123
Back to the original question of this thread. I just thought of perhaps the most important question to ask a new T:
Have you had therapy yourself?
I’m guessing the answer will always be yes for someone who practices psychoanalytically, but I’d like to hear her answer.
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Yes, it can be informative to see how they answer questions about themselves even if the answer is obvious. I like Ts who have websites with a small resume about their training and experience, so I usually know that by the time I contact them. If I were to interview a T now, I would still ask them to tell me about their training and work experience a bit, to see how they describe it on the spot and what they emphasize. I would also ask them what specific concepts and theories have impacted them the most and what they consider their professional specialities.
My last T asked me to email him some text about myself, my story, issues or whatever, before our first session. I enjoyed writing that up and seeing how he brought it up and discussed it in the session. It established an immediate good connection between us because he obviously related to a lot of how I presented myself in that letter, and I clearly felt it was genuine, not just a selling attempt.