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Old Jan 01, 2019, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted by ChickenNoodleSoup View Post
Yes, I experience such things from time to time. Especially with grief.

My neighbor who was like a grandma to me passed away this Summer. Some weeks ago, a random thought popped into my mind that reminded me of her, and suddenly I almost started to cry. Other times I'm perfectly fine, but sometimes stuff like that happens.

Another example would be my pet rabbits I used to have. They've been gone for years now, but I can still sometimes think of something or see something that reminds me of a situation with them, and I'll be sad.

Of course this also goes for other emotions and circumstances. Sometimes the smallest things can make me mad, or also happy.

I think this is one of the things that most people experience from time to time. I hope that you're not alone in this helps a bit with it.
It does help I am not alone on that I have my husband and kids who know I am struggling. They all knew T and adored her. My kids once said she would be an awesome grandmother. However, they were in no way even close to her as I was. They try to understand and be supportive. They dont get it though. None of them have suffered significant losses. Hubby has told me I need to let go and move on. Remember all the good times.

I so appreciate this board because many people understand significant losses and the bond between T and client
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