Great article thank you. It describes what I have been feeling a lot lately. I have many reminders of T around my house gifts, her picture obituary, flowers that I planted using her guidance and knowledge, and a vase that she gave me with fresh cut flowers at my last appointment, etc. I still have her emIl address and phone number programmed in my phone. For some reason whenever I start to type in a person or number for people T always come up. Part of me thinks O should get rid of some of this stuff but I cant, yet