Most people complain that they don't have a loving relationship, but I've got this sweet lady that I've met online a few months ago.

The problem is that she is constantly sending me private messages and it's driving me crazy. I've got stuff I got to do and I don't understand how she has so much time to text me...I mean, both of us are retired, but I just can't keep up with my life like she seems to be able to do with hers.

I do have a hobby of riding my bike several hours a day and she's very supportive of that, but nothing else really. I take care of myself and my little apartment (cleaning, cooking, daily stuff like brushing my teeth, taking a bath, walking my dogs) and sometimes a visit with friends.

When we talk about stuff besides us, she can't seem to stick with the conversation like "what are your plans for the day", etc. and she avoids them. How can someone take care of themselves and spend over 6 hours a day chatting?

Why do people do this?