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Old Jan 01, 2019, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Have you met her in real life? If not, then you don’t really know what she does all day as it could be absolutely anything. Does she live alone, have you seen her house? Is she even “she”?

She might be avoiding “what’s your plans for today” conversations because she can’t and won’t disclose for number of reasons and because likely it’s some shady stuff or isn’t even single. I’d ask for face time or Skype when she is at home so you can see her place and see what she does/doesn’t do. If she declines, you’ll have your answer.

Sorry for being a downer, too many shady people out there.
Yeah, I've skyped with her several times, come to think of it, looking behind her, it looks like she doesn't do any cleaning or straightening. She lives with her brother.

I really like her but, when I chat with her video wise, she looks like she just woke up. Hair a mess, no makeup.

I seriously think I need to rethink the relationship. I told her I needed to go take care of some things and she's still pinging me with texts.

It's so hard to cut things off with a nice person, but when I feel selfish for taking time for myself, that's when I get stressed.
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