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Originally Posted by Kilolea
Hello,
It was my birthday recently, and I met some friends to celebrate it. A few weeks ago, I noticed a friend of mine tried to know what I would like to be gifted. I told him I was interested in learning Japanese and that I didn't start yet because I couldn't find a good resource. I also went to a bookstore one day with all my friends, and I saw a nice Japanese book but I couldn't afford it, so everyone knew what I wanted.
Now, I have this friend of mine which has been acting strange since we had a fight a year ago, but we reconciled instantly. Our fight was caused by a misunderstanding, so I forgave him, but he still seems to be resentful.
When it was his birthday, I gifted him a Star Wars cup because he loves the Star Wars series. We were good friends and we know each other very well, so couldn't I help thinking that he would gift me that Japanese book. But I was wrong. He gifted me a Chinese book instead titled "How to speak Chinese in 15 days". And his dedication says: "<my name>, if you're able to speak Chinese in 15 days, I'll buy you a Japanese dictionary, OK?"
What do you think? Did he intentionally gifted me that book in order to tease me? The book is still available. In fact, I could finally buy it. I seriously don't know what to think.
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he's an ***, not a friend. Who mocks someone by giving them the wrong book with a joke like that in the cover? In none of my friends views would this even be remotely funny and seems more to be some kind of a weird way of giving you the proverbial finger.
You think he's still resentful? Pfft, he definitely does not respect you, so I would say likely this is good evidence he is.
furthermore. I have respect for someone that has resentment and admits it. I have respect for someone that is able to forgive and reconcile with a friend also. What I do not have respect for is for those that pretend to reconcile with a friend only to use that connection to seek vengeance or whatever it is this guy is doing to you.
No need to keep this friend. He's clearly not worth it.