I remember telling my former T that I didn't want to talk about x. And we didn't. Until I was ready to (well she pushed me a little) but we are talking months and years before we really talked about it. In my experience, not just with that T but with all my T's is that they will honor what you don't want to talk about, just as much as they will honor what you do want to talk about. Bottom line, it's your time, it's your therapy, it's your money. HUGS Kit.