What type of women you try to socialize with?

I’d say women who frequent bars and football games might not be there in order to have meaningful conversations. Women who hang out in bars and socialize wuth strangers aren’t there to discuss anything of substance. They likely are there for other reasons and might not be the type to appreciate you.

I’d also say as women get older they are more likely to appreciate a decent guy and not focus on him being certain way.

It’s not easier for women though. Ton of women complain about guys paying no attention to them and only going for dumb bimbos. Lol So it goes both ways. It’s rough out there. But there is someone for everyone out there.