Hi,

I think half the problem is trying too hard to be liked, DazedandConfused254. Not saying that's what you're doing but I don't really think women are all about warm fuzzies and unicorns all the time. Be nice, yes, but try not to censor yourself around them as well. Just say whatever comes into your mind - the real you.

I'll be honest - I began to have more luck with women [my late twenties/thirties] when I just stopped caring. If you're a nice person anyway, then you don't have to try in that area.

I don't know, it's a mystery. One thing is - do not put yourself down please, DazedandConfised254. You're a good person, I can tell. Women are just people my friend, but they're females as well. Be a little bit sexual but not in a #MeToo kind of way.

I'm just throwing that out there.