Quote:
Originally Posted by DP_2017
Toward the end of things with me, he kept saying "I shouldn't have done that" when I tried to question why he was different with me than others. It pissed me off greatly. I told him, don't say that ****, in the moment, you were content with it, it made me happy, it worked for me. You're just afraid now and it's ridiculous.
We had a few squabbles at the end about this but its funny, 2 of the things he said he regretted and should not have done, he agreed to do in the final session.
I'm sorry this hurts so much, people can be cruel sometimes.
|
This reminds me of my former marriage counselor, who told me during the rupture (and after) that he should have been more strict with boundaries from the beginning. Which made me feel like he regretted caring and being there for me.