Hi,

I think you're doing plenty as it is, DarknessIsMyFriend. It's good that you're there for him. Yes, some peoples struggles just don't seem fair at all, but I think just continue being you and being his friend. You're right - his family life sucks. It's saddening. Also, I feel it's okay that he vents about not caring whether he lives or dies, I mean, just having a friend that he feels safe enough with to share his personal thoughts with, will help him in the long run, I believe.