Lyn, that is a clear insight. I, too, have SIed afte the fighting. the tension is still in the body and that is a way to release it.
T's having "us" look for new ways. one thing new for me is that there is an "us" - former t's have always inferred that "i" fix this or do that... now with this t i guess we're in this together.
silver - try and take good care. we're all rooting for you!
Kiya