That is a very strange and uninformative reply. No groveling on your end needed what so ever!! It seems like this therapist maybe isn’t cut out for managing trauma patients. I’d strongly suggest shopping around for a new T. You should be able to talk about anything you need to (when you’re ready of course) but also have some options of support. Trauma work is hard and it does make you feel broken between sessions. It’s a lot to open up and manage.

I hope you find someone compassionate and comforting to do this work with you.