Thank you for your responses everyone.

divine1966: I try to socialize with most women who seem chill to have a convo. My attempts at socializing in bars and sporting events seem more like a way to kill time rather than have meaningful friendships, so I guess that should be out of the question now. But I hang out at coffee shops for hardcore studying and in the process I've connected with just about all of the baristas, quite a few women for that matter, who work at these places. As a traveller, I also have had neat chats with people from around the globe. I can chat up a storm once I get to know someone, but I'm pretty self-conscious, worrying that I may be a bother to others. Hope this clears things up

LiteraryLark: As I mentioned to divine, I so agree with you. People in bars and such aren't of any substance. In regards to what may chase women away, I may need further self-discovery. But when I am preoccupied with obligations, which there can be many at school, I guess I come off as stiff to others. In the past a couple of people criticized me for sharing my personal information with others, but this stemmed from some pretty pesky religious organizations that focused a hypothetical microscope on its members' specific actions and interactions, yet only to be subject to criticism. But many of these groups I used to spend time with have been known to project psychological pain, so I know better than to hang with such toxic people, which I am a few years removed from now. Just hope that these people's toxicity don't carry over into future friendships. For the most part especially after gaining composure after ridding myself of toxic friends, I'm like a textbook revealing general info in the beginning and then getting deeper later on. Again idk. However people say that I'm handsome, I have good tastes in my outfits, and quite a few say they think I'm fun to talk to. Always love hearing from you

Darkness: Don't worry about your post friend, I'm not easily offended, so you certainly won't get hate from me. I appreciate and value your insight, which is discussed in a very articulate and honest fashion. I dig people like you with such qualities. I'm pretty active since I walk to classes and hike when I get the chance, but of course I could always have improvement with making time to stay fit. I think you make a very valid point with confidence and charisma. There very may well be an air of unattractiveness with my tendencies to overanalyze situations and be self-conscious. I've also ran into some people who have made me feel less-than-great just simply for the fact I'm not coupled up yet. As the cliche goes how can one love another when they can't love themselves? But like you say, I guess I need to take a chill pill and start small so I don't blast women's clingyness radar.