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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
Thank you for lumping an entire gender into a group that is out to get you. We need more people to lump us together as a gender and not let us be individual.
Re-read what you have written. Does that sound like it comes from someone who wants to show women kindness? I mean no offense but you have decided that as a gender we have nothing better to do than think about men we want to demolish.
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Agreed, I read the statements and got the same impression. First problem is generalizing the fact that you' haven't had any luck finding the right woman for you as the whole of the population of women being against you. Perception matters a lot here, and if you globalized individual events and lump the women involved together as if there is a conspiracy to hurt you, you're already losing the game.
Others have had some good advice but aside from how you go about meeting women, I think that the foundational principle here would be to change your tendency to generalize things. because one woman rejects you or is not interested, does not mean the other billions do too. heck, if 10 women in a row do the same thing still is a micro percentage of the whole population of women. Treat each individual situation as it is, an individual situation and person you met.
Seems like you're having bad luck with this area? You're not alone, and dating, meeting the opposite sex, finding the one that is right for you is a challenge in and of itself, and for everyone on this earth. It's not you, it's a fact of life that meeting the best mate for you is not ever an easy task. The sooner you accept that it's not going to be easy the sooner you'll be able to take on the challenge and do it without beating yourself up every time that it doesn't happen.
Hope this helps.