Thank you for your responses everyone.

Darkness: Don't worry about your post friend, I'm not easily offended, so you certainly won't get hate from me. I appreciate and value your insight, which is discussed in a very articulate and honest fashion. I dig people like you with such qualities. I'm pretty active since I walk to classes and hike when I get the chance, but of course I could always have improvement with making time to stay fit. I think you make a very valid point with confidence and charisma. There very may well be an air of unattractiveness with my tendencies to overanalyze situations and be self-conscious. I've also ran into some people who have made me feel less-than-great just simply for the fact I'm not coupled up yet. As the cliche goes how can one love another when they can't love themselves? But like you say, I guess I need to take a chill pill and start small so I don't blast women's clingyness radar.