Hello kimberlym: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.
I can't comment with regard to your concern. But hopefully there will be other members who will. One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the Women-Focused Support forum. Here's a link:
https://forums.psychcentral.com/women-focused-support/
I hope you find PC to be of benefit.