Didn’t you already break up? Is that the same woman that you caught sexting and arranging hook ups with other men? I’d say not going on planned dates is the least of the issues here. What does it matter now about her canceling dates? Sgd clearly wasn’t exclusive or commited or too interested in any shape or form. I hope you saw a doctor to check for STDs.

Are you seeing a therapist? It might be helpful to work on why you are picking these pretty awful women one after another and when relationships are over (for legitimate reasons) you continue analyzing why they did this or that. It’s a waste of time trying to figure out why people do what they do, as you’ll never get an answer.

But it’s never a waste of time trying to figure out why YOU do wgat you do. In particular re finding/attracting/liking these unsuitable women. Do you jump into relationships too soon? Before you get to know them?