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Old Jan 05, 2019, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by GretchenC View Post
Thanks to all. She is a certified trauma T, but not big on validation or reassurance. I knew that about her going in, so it’s no ones fault but my own. But I’m blown away by the immediacy of the “Goodbye and good luck” response. I emailed her back and asked if we could try a different approach, but have not heard back. Feels...awkward. Thanks for listening.
It's not your fault and you did not say anything 'wrong'. You stated how you felt.

She is the one being intransigent and not willing to engage in dialogue.

Tbh, I see it as good riddance to bad rubbish. It's not even about "validation" or "reassurance" but basic communication skills that she fails at. Does she even have clients?? I am bewildered that she is also a trauma T. That is scary.
Thanks for this!
GretchenC, here today, Out There