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Originally Posted by Salmon77
One of the things I work on in therapy is saying what I want and asking questions directly, rather than trying to signal what I'm thinking or figure out what other people are thinking via signals. Asking is a lot faster and more likely to get you the true answer than analyzing some picture on her website.
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My T drove this home with me. He encouraged it so much because I couldn't ask. I always assumed I wasn't worth anything. Asking was very tough but WITH HIM, became second nature in time. To the point, where I'd demand things from him, in a joking way but still.
He initially offered to touch me... thankfully because I'd never have asked. I don't think you can really get what you want with mind games. You gotta ask, bottom line