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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark
Cheating is breaking a boundary or rule defined by both partners in the relationship. You snooped on her phone, that was a boundary of hers that you crossed, she went behind your back to flirt with another man, that was a boundary of yours that she crossed.
I would consider both offenses equally terrible. I'd break up with someone if they snooped through my phone without permission, and I'd also break up with someone who was flirting with others while in a relationship.
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Ok, here is my take on that. Why would you care if you have nothing to hide? My phone is literally all over the house. I tend to forget about it when I am at home because I have a house phone, and I converse on that. The cell is for brief use when I am out (Hey, I am at Walmart, can I get you anything?)and for text messages. I hate talking on it. I am FOREVER losing it. I don't care if my husband looks at it 5 times a day because there is nothing there that needs to be hidden.
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I go about my own business, and keep my mind on myself and my life. I expect the same courtesy from the rest of the world.
