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Originally Posted by Medusax
Ok, here is my take on that. Why would you care if you have nothing to hide? My phone is literally all over the house. I tend to forget about it when I am at home because I have a house phone, and I converse on that. The cell is for brief use when I am out (Hey, I am at Walmart, can I get you anything?)and for text messages. I hate talking on it. I am FOREVER losing it. I don't care if my husband looks at it 5 times a day because there is nothing there that needs to be hidden.
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If I have nothing to hide, why do I have to prove it? In a healthy relationship, there is no snooping or being snooped on, there are boundaries. I don't need or want my partner to be involved in every aspect of my personal life, including what goes on in my phone. I couldn't fathom handing over my phone to make sure my partner knows I'm faithful, and I cannot understand this obsession over snooping/being snooped on. I can't wrap my brain around that low level of insecurity.